Damn Those Peanut M&M’s!

Those of us with extensive food allergies must have herculean will power.  We politely say “no thanks” to the homemade treats our coworkers offer us.  We shake our heads when the restaurant server asks if we want bread and butter.  We sit patiently while our family members eat appetizers and desserts we haven’t tasted in years.

We do this because we don’t want to get sick.

But every once in a while, temptation gets the better of us.  For me, it was the extra-large bag of Peanut M&M’s I’d bought on sale at Costco for my kids.  I’d safely concealed it in our basement bar’s cabinet, but out of sight didn’t mean out of mind.  And after a particularly stressful day, chocolate became for me what water becomes to a lost hiker in the desert.  And a bar of rice milk chocolate wasn’t going to satisfy my craving–not this time!

So I snuck down to the basement and had just a few M&M’s . . .

Then a few more . . .

Well, since I’m going to get sick anyway . . .

Several handfuls later, I tiptoed back up the stairs, feeling pathetic and weak.   (Listed in the ingredients: dairy, soy, and corn, all of which I’m allergic to.  Rats!)

Three days have gone by and I’m still reacting to those damn Peanut M&M’s: a rash on my chest, unpleasant gastrointestinal ailments, and brain fogginess.  Next time–and I’m sure there will be a next time–I WILL find an allergy-free substitute for my chocolate craving.  I’ve learned my lesson.

But should I err again, I refuse to beat myself up.   Like you, I make daily sacrifices and rarely slip up.  That takes a lot of effort and it’s something to be proud of.

Companies That Make Life Easier

For many  months after my diagnosis of celiac disease and food allergies (dairy, eggs, corn, soy, vanilla, nutmeg, to name a few), I often left the grocery store in tears.  Sure I’d find an organic gluten-free pizza sans dairy, but wouldn’t you know soy was listed in the ingredients.  I had no idea which brands of deli meats I could buy or which gluten-free breads didn’t use corn flour.  Which chickens and cows ate soy and corn and wheat, and which fed only on grass?  I’m embarrassed to say I often found myself throwing packages back onto the shelves in total frustration.

Today food shopping has become much easier thanks, in part, to the various companies who specialize in organic and non-allergy foods.  I plan to blog about my favorites in the near future, but the first I’d like to mention is Mile High Organics, an online retailer serving Colorado’s Front Range and the first online grocer to be USCA certified.  Every Saturday a box of organic, non-genetically modified fruits and vegetables, as well as other items I’ve ordered, arrives on my doorstep.  It’s like Christmas.  Thankfully the order comes with recipes because I don’t always know how to prepare kale, beets and other veggies.  What I like best about this service is the time it saves me from scouring the produce aisles and reading packages.   I also find that it makes me try new foods and preparations, which is great for someone with leaky gut.

To see if you have such a delivery service in your area, search online organic grocers on the Web, and please share any of your favorite allergy-aware companies.

Struggles of Eating Abroad

I did all the right things.  I made translation allergy cards explaining celiac disease and my food allergies in Italian.  I read Italian cookbooks so that I’d recognize what ingredients, such as butter and capers and flour, might be used in common recipes.  I called the airlines and ordered gluten-free meals.  I packed my favorite Larabars for emergencies.  I made sure my hotel rooms had refrigerators for storing allergy-free snacks.

Even with all the prep and planning, I still got sick.

During my twelve days of travelling through Italy, it became apparent that Italians understand celiac disease quite well.  In fact, wait staff eagerly offered me wheat-free pasta; unfortunately, the pasta was made from corn, which I’m allergic to.  Few seemed to understand food allergies.  One memorable night I ordered risotto with shrimp that the waiter assured me was dairy-free; apparently he didn’t think “cream” fell into the category of dairy.  Let’s just say the evening didn’t end well and the next day wasn’t much better.

I quickly learned to not be adventurous and stick to what I know so well–salad.  Fortunately, a regular item on most menus was a salad with tuna in olive oil, olives. tomatoes, and mesclun greens (“mixed”  wild-harvested, young greens).  Some days I’d also go to the meat market and pick up sliced prosciutto and salami to nibble on.  For dinner, a piece of fish or meat seasoned with olive oil, salt and pepper and a vegetable (artichokes were in season) or salad worked well. Of course, a nice chianti enhanced most meals,  followed by a lemoncello for dessert (Positano had the best lemoncello!).

Timing was everything.  One long afternoon my family and I went in search of a pizzeria one of our tour guides said had the best pizza in Rome.  By the time we found it, we had to wait twenty minutes to be let inside only to be told the kitchen was closed (no salads, just pizza).   I insisted my husband and son stay and try the pizza, so by the time we left the restaurant it was nearly two–the time of day when most businesses in Italy are closed!  I didn’t eat lunch that day until 4 p.m.

Airline travel was also a test in patience.  My advice to anyone with food challenges who is travelling via airline: Pack several meals and snacks because you never know when you’ll arrive at your destination. And don’t expect the airline to actually have your preordered special meal.

  I did enjoy a few wonderful meals, too.  On the Amalfi Coast, we ate at a fabulous family-run restaurant called La Tagliata. At first I was worried because they serve fixed meals, but I didn’t need to be.  With the exception of the pasta, cheese and dessert, I could eat everything.  The dishes were simple and came right out of their own orchards and from their own livestock.  It proved to me that the “basics” can be delicious and elegant, and having allergies doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy good-tasting food.  Ciao!

Why Are So Many of Us Facing Autoimmune Disorders?

Answers some of the mysteries behind autoimmune disease

Just finished reading a thought-provoking book The Autoimmune Epidemic by Donna Jackson Nakazawa.  Did you know 23.5 million Americans have an autoimmune disease?  That’s double the number of people diagnosed with cancer.   Most of us are dealing with multiple chronic illnesses, too.  I won’t recap the book here, but will say it’s worth a read if you’re interested in how the environment impacts your and your family’s health (if you’re following this blog, I assume you are!).   The book also provides an in-depth look at what science is doing to understand, treat and prevent the epidemic of autoimmune disorders.  Medicine is making progress, but not nearly as fast as we all would like.

With food allergies and celiac, I’m very tuned in to what I eat.  I choose organic vegetables and fruit and wild meats and fish.  However, until reading this book, I wasn’t so aware of what I’m breathing in every day.  This morning I took note of the cloud of  chemical-filled hairspray I inhaled, the dry cleaning I picked up at the cleaners, the winds stirring up the grass and tree pollen in the backyard, and the exhaust from the passing garbage truck as I took a walk on a beautiful Colorado day.   Other than wearing a face mask, what can I do to reduce my daily intake of toxic substances?  Change to more natural beauty supplies, maybe.  Start steaming my dryclean-only clothes.   Avoid pollution?  What else?

Preparing for Italy

Spaghetti all' arrabbiata

Image via Wikipedia

Wondering how I would communicate my food allergies to servers in Italy, I did what all Americans do in a quandary: I turned to google.  I was pleasantly surprised to find a long list of websites offering translation cards in many languages and at low-cost.  The one I chose was actually free at Allergy Free Passport.

Within seconds I had a pocket-sized dining card listing the most common allergies in both English and Italian.  Now some other websites offer customized cards, but for my purposes the top allergies were sufficient.  I simply drew a line through the allergies that didn’t apply to me. Then I took one of the cards to the office supply store and had it laminated for about a dollar.  How easy was that!

The other cool thing I found at Allergy Free Passport was an e-book, Allergen Free Dining In Italian Restaurants, which I quickly bought and downloaded on my iPad to take with me.

Now I feel prepared to eat out in Italy!  Do any of you have a suggestion for traveling with celiac and allergies?

Living Life with Food Challenges

Yesterday I  asked my sister-in-law, a travel agent, for help planning a trip to Italy; she proceeded to gush about “the fabulous food” for a full five minutes.  The pasta, the pizza, the bread, the biscotti.  Then she caught herself and gasped, “Oh no, what are you going to eat?”

This is a question I ask myself often.  With celiac disease and extensive food allergies, eating–on the road, at a local restaurant, or in my own kitchen–is a challenge.  But it’s one I’ve learned to embrace.  Sure it took years for me to accept my body’s strange and unpredictable reaction to certain foods, but today I don’t let my allergies hold me back.  If anything, I’ve learned to love food and life even more.  I hope my blog will inspire you to do the same.